Winning a woman’s heart is not an easy job but it’s not an impossible job either. Guys, let’s stop hiding under the excuse that women are too complex. Yes, they are complex beings but they are highly impressionable by certain actions – especially when those actions are engaged in with the sincere purpose of wooing them. Don’t give up on your romance and don’t take your woman for granted. I hope these 8 practical ideas help spice up and ignite fresh romance in your relationship. Here they are :
PRACTICAL IDEA #1: GIVE HER YOUR ATTENTION
Women are emotional creatures and they are wired to communicate. Communication is VERY important to a woman. If you want to really understand your woman and capture her heart, then listen to what she says carefully. Give her your undivided attention. Maintain eye contact when she talks with you. Be fully present with her. Share your opinion and your ideas freely. A real conversation doesn’t mean you have to agree with everything she says; it means you have to be there for here and with her.
PRACTICAL IDEA #2: BE THERE FOR HER DURING THE TOUGH TIMES
Everybody goes through tough times in life. Everybody. Life isn’t exactly a bed of roses. Your woman will go through tough times as well, and she will need you at such times. There’s nothing more comforting than knowing that no matter what life brings, there’s someone who will be there by your side to weather the storm. Let that person be you. Be there for her in the good times, and especially during the tough times. Anybody can be a friend during the good times; only a true friend will stay during the bad times. Be that kind of a friend. Also, be supportive of her when she tries to achieve her goals and dreams, and be happy for her achievements.
PRACTICAL IDEA #3: SURPRISE HER
Women are romantic creatures at heart and they love surprises! But guys, lest you misunderstand, surprises do not always have to cost a lot of money. The whole idea is to show her love, not to break the bank. You can choose to be simple and original, instead of spend-thrifty. After all, it is the thought that counts most. Be imaginative and creative. Again, you don’t have to break the bank to do this.
PRACTICAL IDEA #4: COOK FOR HER
Yes, cook for her – but only on the condition that you know how to do so! If not, disregard this tip. Figure out what she likes to eat and then practice cooking the meal a few times behind her back. Once you’re comfortable with your level of ‘expertise’, cook her dinner (as long as the food is edible, she’ll be impressed). The thought of taking the time and effort to actually cook for her will show her that you care enough about her to devote your time to make her feel special.
PRACTICAL IDEA #5: FOCUS ON HER GOOD QUALITIES
What attracted you to her? What were her personal qualities and characteristics that pulled you? Think about it. There was a very good reason you were drawn to her in the first place. The idea is to keep those qualities ever fresh in your heart, and doing this will keep the attraction factor high in your relationship. But you will have to do this consciously. It’s in our nature as men to often forget our woman’s special qualities, or worse still, to take those qualities for granted. You have to consciously guard against this.
PRACTICAL IDEA #6: CALL HER DURING THE DAY OR TEXT HER
Women love attention, and they never seem to get enough of it. If you want to capture your woman’s heart, keep the lines of communication open. Call or text her throughout the day just to let her know you are thinking about her. Women love to feel important and treasured. They love it when it seems like you are always thinking about them. That’s just how they are wired. Of course, you can’t ‘always’ think about her, but make it seem so to her.
PRACTICAL IDEA #7: SHOWER HER WITH SINCERE COMPLIMENTS
Women love compliments – especially from their significant other. So shower her with compliments. You don’t have to lie or flatter her – there are always positive things about your partner if you open your eyes. Often, a compliment is more appreciated when there is a surprise element to it. Telling her how smart you find her, how she turns you on, appreciating how thoughtful and generous she is, etc. will go a long way in enriching your relationship.
PRACTICAL IDEA #8: LET HER BE HER OWN PERSON
Guys, don’t be possessive and make your woman account to you regarding her whereabouts. Let her know you trust her. Don’t expect her to spend all her free time with you. Let her have her own life too. Often when in a relationship people make the mistake of spending every waking moment that they can manage together, and in the process alienate themselves from friends and even lose their own identity. Let her be her own person. It will help your relationship a great deal.